#MenAreTrash SPARKS DEBATE | Karabo Mokoena’s chilling murder in South Africa has sparked an intense debate that has split women and men on social media.


The hashtag #MenAreTrash saw women tell scary and sad tales of abuse at the hands of loved ones and strangers‚ while some men have responded with #NotAllMen.A woman by the name of Alexandra Buki Deen shared a thread of tweets about how she survived an attack by a man who kidnapped her.

She explained how the man grabbed and forced her into his car‚ threatened to kill and rape her if she did anything “stupid”.

Deen said that she was terrified and knew that the only way out was to jump out of the moving car‚ which left her with bruises and broken teeth.

“Jumping out of this car was my only way out. Because he was still holding on to my arm‚ the car dragged me for a few seconds. When I opened my eyes I had to get up and run” she tweeted.

While the anger against South African men escalated‚ some replied that that #NotAllMen were violent towards women.

“I cannot endorse that #MenAreTrash as I was raised by an amazing‚ loving father. What I will say is that some humans are trash‚” said TV personality Nandi Madida. Some men came out in defence of the #MenAreTrash brigade saying that the saga is not an attack on masculinity or personal morality but an outcry from women.

“Instead of standing up and defending women‚ we fight #MenAreTrash. Proving that #MenAreTrash” tweeted Sipho Cossie‚ @Dr_SA_Cossie.

According to Unisa Sociology expert‚ Dr Nokuthula Mazibuko‚ “there is no question that in South Africa‚ violence against women is widespread”.

“The forms of violence include attempting to strangle‚ verbal abuse‚ imposing severe restrictions on freedom of movement‚ as well as sexual violence‚ which includes forced sexual intercourse and other forms of sexual coercion.” However calling men trash could be damaging‚ says Sarah Findlay‚ programme coordinator in the policy and quality unit at Media Monitoring Africa.